fix(实物订单): 对齐订单删除语义并修复删除链路

- 列表/统计/导出口径与中台一致：常规排除双标记，已删除只列
  用户已删且后台未删的订单
- 删除去掉状态门槛，改由中台守卫（用户已删）拦截，ApiException
  消息透出（原先被吞成「删除失败」）
- 修复 softDelete 两处死代码：centerServices->get 传 string 撞
  BaseDao ?array 严格类型；扩展表 eb_pt_normal_order 无 is_del 列，
  源表同步移除，删除标记以中台为唯一真源
- 前端删除入口只在「已删除」页签展示，批量发货反之；确认文案与
  导出参数同步对齐

backend/modules/product/normal/controller/admin/OrderController.php

@@ -85,6 +85,7 @@ class OrderController extends AuthController
                 $candidateQuery = $centerDao->getDb()
                     ->where($baseWhere)
                     ->where('is_del', '=', 0)
+                    ->where('is_system_del', '=', 0)
                     ->where('status_code', '<>', 'canceled');
                 $this->applyCommonFilter($candidateQuery, $commonFilter);
                 $candidateOrderNos = $candidateQuery->column('order_no');
@@ -99,7 +100,8 @@ class OrderController extends AuthController
                 $query = $centerDao->getDb()
                     ->where($baseWhere)
                     ->where('status_code', '=', $statusCode)
-                    ->where('is_del', '=', 0)->where('status_code', '<>', 'canceled');
+                    ->where('is_del', '=', 0)->where('is_system_del', '=', 0)
+                    ->where('status_code', '<>', 'canceled');
                 $this->applyCommonFilter($query, $commonFilter);
                 $businessStats[$statusCode] = $query->count();
             } else {
@@ -107,7 +109,8 @@ class OrderController extends AuthController
                 foreach ($node['children'] as $childKey => $child) {
                     $query = $centerDao->getDb()
                         ->where($baseWhere)
-                        ->where('is_del', '=', 0)->where('status_code', '<>', 'canceled');
+                        ->where('is_del', '=', 0)->where('is_system_del', '=', 0)
+                        ->where('status_code', '<>', 'canceled');
                     $this->applyCommonFilter($query, $commonFilter);
                     // 应用子状态特有的筛选条件
                     if (!empty($child['filter'])) {
@@ -127,9 +130,9 @@ class OrderController extends AuthController
             }
         }
 
-        // 已删除
+        // 已删除（用户删除且后台未删，与「已删除」页签列表口径一致）
         $delQuery = $centerDao->getDb()
-            ->where($baseWhere)->where('is_del', '=', 1);
+            ->where($baseWhere)->where('is_del', '=', 1)->where('is_system_del', '=', 0);
         $this->applyCommonFilter($delQuery, $commonFilter);
         $businessStats['deleted'] = $delQuery->count();
 
@@ -956,19 +959,12 @@ class OrderController extends AuthController
             return app('json')->fail('参数错误');
         }
 
-        // 校验订单状态，已支付/已发货订单不能删除
-        $order = $centerServices->get($id, 'status_code, pay_status, delivery_time');
-        if (!$order) {
-            return app('json')->fail('订单不存在');
-        }
-        $statusCode = $order['status_code'];
-        if (!in_array($statusCode, ['pending_payment', 'canceled'])) {
-            return app('json')->fail('已支付/已发货的订单不能删除，如需清理请先取消订单');
-        }
-
         try {
+            // softDelete → 中台 delete：仅允许删除用户已删的订单，写 is_system_del 隐藏后台
             $orderServices->softDelete($id);
             return app('json')->success('删除成功');
+        } catch (ApiException $e) {
+            return app('json')->fail($e->getMessage());
         } catch (\Throwable $e) {
             Log::error('[NormalOrder] delete failed: ' . $e->getMessage());
             return app('json')->fail('删除失败');
@@ -1037,7 +1033,7 @@ class OrderController extends AuthController
         try {
             // 如果没有订单号，通过 ID 查询
             if (empty($orderNo) && $id > 0) {
-                $order = $centerServices->get($id, 'order_no');
+                $order = $centerServices->get($id, ['order_no']);
                 if ($order) {
                     $orderNo = $order['order_no'];
                 }
@@ -1237,18 +1233,7 @@ class OrderController extends AuthController
 
         foreach ($ids as $id) {
             try {
-                $order = $centerServices->get((int)$id, 'status_code, pay_status');
-                if (!$order) {
-                    $fail++;
-                    $errors[] = "订单ID {$id} 不存在";
-                    continue;
-                }
-                $statusCode = $order['status_code'];
-                if (!in_array($statusCode, ['pending_payment', 'canceled'])) {
-                    $fail++;
-                    $errors[] = "订单ID {$id} 状态不允许删除";
-                    continue;
-                }
+                // 与单笔删除一致：由中台守卫校验「用户已删」，写 is_system_del
                 $orderServices->softDelete((int)$id);
                 $success++;
             } catch (\Throwable $e) {
@@ -1277,6 +1262,7 @@ class OrderController extends AuthController
             ['date_range', ''],
             ['pay_type', ''],
             ['type', ''],
+            ['is_deleted', ''],
         ]);
         $where['order_category'] = 'goods';
         $where['product_type'] = 'normal';

backend/modules/product/normal/service/OrderServices.php

@@ -522,17 +522,14 @@ class OrderServices extends BaseService
     // ===== 软删除 =====
 
     /**
-     * 软删除订单（中台表 is_del = 1 + 扩展表同步）
+     * 软删除订单（中台 is_system_del = 1）
+     * 中台 delete 守卫要求用户已删，仅用于后台清理用户删除过的订单；
+     * 扩展表 eb_pt_normal_order 无删除列，删除标记以中台为唯一真源
      * @param int $id 中台表 id
      * @return void
      */
     public function softDelete(int $id): void
     {
-        // 获取 order_no 用于同步扩展表
-        $order = $this->centerServices->get($id, 'order_no');
-        if ($order && !empty($order['order_no'])) {
-            $this->dao->update(['order_no' => $order['order_no']], ['is_del' => 1]);
-        }
         $this->centerServices->delete($id);
     }
 

frontend/admin/src/pages/plugin/normal/order/List.vue

@@ -578,7 +578,7 @@ function openPrintWindow(data, type) {
 function handleDelete(row) {
   ElMessageBox({
     title: '提示',
-    message: '确定要删除该订单吗？',
+    message: '确定删除该订单吗？删除后后台列表将不再显示。',
     showCancelButton: true,
     cancelButtonText: '取消',
     confirmButtonText: '确定',
@@ -709,7 +709,7 @@ function handleBatchDelete() {
   }
   ElMessageBox({
     title: '提示',
-    message: '确定要批量删除选中的订单吗？',
+    message: '确定批量删除选中的订单吗？删除后后台列表将不再显示。',
     showCancelButton: true,
     cancelButtonText: '取消',
     confirmButtonText: '确定',
@@ -745,7 +745,8 @@ function handleExport() {
         page: 1,
         limit: 200,
         ...searchParams.value,
-        status_code: statusTab.value,
+        status_code: statusTab.value === 'deleted' ? '' : statusTab.value,
+        is_deleted: statusTab.value === 'deleted' ? 1 : '',
       };
       doExport(params);
     })

frontend/admin/src/pages/plugin/normal/order/components/OrderTable.vue

@@ -14,8 +14,10 @@
 
     <!-- 工具栏 -->
     <div class="toolbar">
-      <el-button v-db-click type="primary" @click="emit('batch-shipment')">批量发货</el-button>
-      <el-button v-db-click @click="emit('batch-delete')">批量删除</el-button>
+      <el-button v-db-click type="primary" v-if="currentTab !== 'deleted'" @click="emit('batch-shipment')"
+        >批量发货</el-button
+      >
+      <el-button v-db-click v-if="currentTab === 'deleted'" @click="emit('batch-delete')">批量删除</el-button>
       <el-button v-db-click @click="exportList">订单导出</el-button>
     </div>
 
@@ -186,7 +188,7 @@
                   >配送信息</el-dropdown-item
                 >
                 <!-- 删除订单 -->
-                <el-dropdown-item command="delete" v-if="canDelete(scope.row)">删除订单</el-dropdown-item>
+                <el-dropdown-item command="delete" v-if="canDelete()">删除订单</el-dropdown-item>
               </el-dropdown-menu></template
             >
           </el-dropdown>
@@ -400,11 +402,10 @@ function canShowDeliveryInfo(row) {
 }
 
 /**
- * 判断是否可删除（仅未支付/已取消可删除）
+ * 判断是否可删除：删除入口只在「已删除」页签展示（后台删除须以用户已删为前提）
  */
-function canDelete(row) {
-  const statusCode = getBusinessStatus(row).code;
-  return statusCode === 'pending_payment' || statusCode === 'canceled';
+function canDelete() {
+  return currentTab.value === 'deleted';
 }
 
 /**